What’s all the fuss to stop the ascent to the top of the hill? I mean, really, think about it. Plodding uphill is exhausting, knee-breaking work. It’s also exciting, necessary, rewarding, makes us strong, and gets us somewhere. Somewhere very important: to the top of the hill. And hopefully, by the time we get there, we have left a lot of worthy things behind, a legacy that makes us feel exhilarated and helps others get to the top of the hill even easier than we did.
Then what? Well, what goes up must come down, right? And that’s the fun part! We’ve done our duty getting to the top of the hill, and now we get to cruise down, rest our eyes, and feel the breeze in our faces. So why are many of us trying to put on the brakes? What do we want to accomplish? Do we want to stand still and watch everyone pass us by, never getting to that next step, that next great experience? Do we want to backtrack, walk backwards to the top of the hill again? Talk about exhausting! Then we are neither climbing nor descending the hill, and where do we fit in? Are we content to live an illusion, let the natural process of life pass us by while we stagnate at the top of the hill, getting in the way of those achieving their victorious summits?
So what’s the deal with wanting to slam on the breaks?
Losing youth is a depressing fact of life if our priorities are muddled, if we listen to the media that tell us we are no longer viable because we are aging, if we give up our interests and talents and the things that make us tick, if we don’t realize how important we are to those younger than us who need our hard fought experience and advice, and sometimes an understanding shoulder to cry on.
But if we recognize that beauty really shines forth from within, and that aging refines natural beauty, not diminishes it, and that those despised creases in our faces are really a memory map of all the beautiful and wonderful times we’ve shared with our beloved family and friends, we can enjoy the ride down the hill, glorying in the wind caressing our faces, looking forward to that next fresh experience those climbing the hill must wait to discover.
It’s all perspective, isn’t it? We can’t change reality. And time is a gift. It’s our choice what to do with it.
Happy cruising!
Debbie